29 September, 2016


I've been thinking lately about what motherhood is to me.  I'm meeting a lot of mums in the park, the library, the school pick-up line, and it's quite obvious its different to each of us.

Motherhood is a lifestyle, a ministry, and a gift.

Its forsaking yourself to give your very best. Its laying yourself down every day for the nurturing and teaching and training of souls. Its an imperfect heart shaping hearts. Its stewardship, not ownership. Its clinging to grace every waking moment. Its constant, unending ministry. Its presence and patience and believing the truth that by grace, yes, I am enough.

Its viewing children as humans and treating them so.

We were at a barbecue last weekend and upon arriving inside, Peter and I instructed our children to take their shoes off, and only after they were off did we realise this was a shoes-on party. Sebastian and Katharina slipped theirs back on quickly and ran off to find their friends in the same amount of time that Philippa had just pulled back on her first sock. I stood across the kitchen watching her there on the floor-- rushing, excited, alone-- and it struck me: what is it like to stand knee-high to all adults? To be slower, less coordinated? To depend on someone else for nearly everything?

I felt such a pull in my heart; its the same pull you feel when you see someone being mistreated or sitting alone, and its the pull we talk to our children about watching for every morning before school. Its a pull you don't often feel unless you're looking for it, open to it. Its a pull that takes you out of your way for another.

I set down the salad I was holding and went across to her, "Would you like help with these boots?" And her face lit up because in that moment there was no where else I needed to be.

Motherhood is not having an agenda of what we want for or from our children, but constantly seeking What is this doing in me? Its taking up the cross, again, with gladness. Let's not be more motivated in our parenting by what we want for or from our children, than we are by what God is doing to us  t h r o u g h  our children.

Parenthood is miraculous. There are so many joys in it. So many wonders to behold. So many inconveniences waiting for you to realise they're conveniently leading you to The Cross.

If only you had the time.

This is what I'm passionate about; being slow with your children. With all of life. Taking time for the things that you think you can't be bothered with. Sitting with the little ones at the barbecue not to intercept messes but because you genuinely with your whole heart enjoy their company. Giving them opportunities to be more than a three year old. Talking in real adult voices about real things.

Its miraculous and I don't quite know how it happens, except God. I know he's in this motherhood business and he's busy in my heart and theirs. And I can feel his presence moving every single day as I shepherd these tiny people he has given me to make  m e  holier.

Ministry is everywhere-- in the dishes, in the wet bed, in the tantrums, in the quiet cuddly weekends and the exhausted midweek slump. Ministry is everywhere, because the gospel is everywhere. Right here, right now.

So what are we doing? We're teaching them to trust God. To love Jesus with all their heart and strength. We're teaching them to love in a world so full of hatred. That showing compassion doesn't make them weak; that listening to their heart makes them strong. We're holding them close and smiling when the orange juice spills and laying ourselves down to raise them up. Its being a parent, and its a messy, convenient, soul-shaping gift.


  1. I want to soak in these words...becoming a new mama this spring scares me and inspires me. I need lots of reminders to slowly savor this season - I know it will feel long at times but I know it is just a season and will quickly pass and I want to embrace it with all I can.

  2. I feel this is about to go viral... thank you for sharing this, I am in a season of stepping back from my "goals and dreams" in order to remember who I am as mother and what that means for my children! Not that I can't or shouldn't have any... but that it shouldn't hurt them in the process. Anywho, beautifully written.

  3. شركة تنظيف بالقطيف 0552744429 السفير المثالى

    شركة تنظيف بالقطيفالسفير المثالي تقوم باستخدام المنظفات التي تعمل على أذابه جميع الأوساخ الموجودة داخل المنزل التي تتراكم دائما على الأرضيات وتتراكم على الستائر بسبب الرياح والغبار والأتربة وان الستائر من أصعب الأشياء التي يمكننا أن نقوم بتنظيفها بأنفسنا ودائما نقوم بالآستعانة بشركةتنظيف منازل بالقطيف


  4. Firstly, do not do anything that will harm your baby during pregnancy. Take good care of yourself. https://stoorikhan.wordpress.com/2017/07/18/393/

  5. Perpetually consistent and an extraordinary commitment to the universe of bloggers.

  6. يصعب أحيانا علي ربة المنزل أن تقوم بأعمال النظافة وحدها وخاصة في وجود أطفال أوانشغالها بعملها، وتحتاج إلى من يساعدها في انهاء مهام التنظيف، وأحيانا تمر عليه اوقات مناسبات أو عزومات وتحتار فيمن تقدم لها يد المساعدة، لذلك “شركة التقوي” تقدم لها كافة الخدمات المتميزة من أعمال التنظيف والترتيب والتلميع وتنسيق المنزل، ونقدم خدماتنا بكل أمان ودون قلق من استقدام الخادمات للعمل والقلق وعدم استئمانهم علي الممتلكات، فنحن شركة متميزة لنا باع طويل واسم وخبرة رائدة في مجال النظافة والتنظيف، نضمن لك خدمة متميزة، وأسعار خاصة، وأمان تام من أكثر شركة تنظيف المنازل.
    شركة تنظيف منازل بالرياض

    شركة نقل اثاث بالرياض

    شركة تنظيف سجاد بالرياض
    شركة مكافحة حشرات بالرياض
    شركة تنظيف خزانات بالرياض

    شركة مكافحة حمام بالرياض
    شركة تخزين اثاث بالرياض
    تقدم شركة التقوي خدمة مكافحة حشرات بكافة أنواعها الطائرة والزاحفة، وكذلك مكافحة القوارض، للمنازل والشركات والمصانعو لا ننسي خدمة مكافحة الثعابين والزواحف ضمن خدماتن
    خدمتنا مميزة في هذا المجال وبرنامجنا في المكافحة مطور بإستخدام أجود أنواع المبيدات الحشرية الآمنة وننفذه بطريقة علمية علي
    أيدي خبراء مدربين علي أعلي مستوي وبعد المكافحة نقدم برنامج الوقاية اللازم لضمان جودة الخدمة المقدمة ولضمان عدم وجود أي
    حشرات مخبأة أو في أماكن التوالد غير المرئية
    مع خدماتنا المتميزة لن تقلق علي مصنعك وأجهزتك ومعداتك ولن يخاف أبناؤك من الحشرات أو القوارض بعد اليوم
    . اتصل بنا وتعرف علي عروضنا المتميزة المقدمة من شركة التقوي للخدمات المتكاملة

    شركة رش مبيدات بالرياض
    شركة جلي بلاط بالرياض